Le 18 janvier 2017, 03:49 dans Humeurs • 0
Life is too short for us to be always worried about what others think. If we don’t love ourselves enough, no one would. When you love yourself enough, it’ll be much easier for you to achieve other goals.
Here are 20 signs that will help you discover whether or not you are truly loving and appreciating who you are.
1. You’re not feeling free to be who you really are
You don’t believe that who you really are is good enough to show to other people. You put on a bit of an act in order to please others. You try to be who you think others want you to be.
2. You’re don’t feel free to express your ideas
Something is holding you back and is not letting you express your ideas as you wish. There is a voice telling you that your ideas are not good enough and that other people’s ideas are somehow of greater value. You need to learn that your ideas are equally valuable and that people would like to hear what you have to say.
3. You’re not spending enough quality time alone
When you are alone you do not enjoy your own company. The time you spend by yourself is not quality time. You feel uncomfortable. You need to learn how to enjoy and value your own company.
4. You’re not being honest with yourself about your values
You have a lot of values as a human being. You have many positive qualities that you need to learn to value properly. But many times you tell yourself maybe these are not that important to you, as you try to compromise or fit in.
5. You’re not being true to your inner nature
You do not have the confidence to see your inner nature as a thing of beauty to be taken care of. You need to learn that if you are true to your inner nature the essence of who you are will shine through and effect all those around you in an uplifting way.
6. You’re not spoiling yourself enough
You do not believe that you deserve to be spoilt. You treat others lavishly but when it comes to you and your needs you are frugal. You need to learn how to take yourself out to places you like and to do things that you genuinely enjoy.
7. You’re not pampering yourself enough
You are not taking yourself out for that special massage that you deserve. You believe it is better to spend the money on something practical for the house. It is better if you learn that, for example, getting your nails or hair done will do a lot more for you and your outlook then you may think.
8. You’re not giving yourself positive feedback
Even when you do something great or are highly successful in your work you do not complement yourself or give yourself a pat on the back. You skim over successful moments in your life and do not believe they deserve attention.
9. You’re not taking pride in your physical appearance
You are not taking pride in the way you look and allowing yourself to flaunt your looks around a bit. You are shying away and would rather people not look at you at all.
10. You’re not taking pride in your intellectual abilities
Although you are smart you do not believe this to be true. You always think that others know more than you do and don’t feel that you measure up intellectually.
11. You’re not appreciating all that you do
You do a lot for your family and friends. You help them in ways you don’t realize. You do not give yourself credit for the positive impact you have on others.
12. You’re not comfortable about letting others know your intellectual opinions
You have various views on intellectual issues and things you hear in the news. You would like to share your intellectual opinions but you don’t believe that you have enough knowledge to base your opinions on. You think that if you say what you think people will believe that your opinions are unfounded or childish.
13. You’re not happy with the image your present
You think that the way you present is not impressive and that people do not look at you with admiration. You would like to make good first impressions but you don’t feel that you do. All you need is a bit more confidence so that you can walk into a room with a presence.
14. You’re not able to confide in those that are closest to you
You feel embarrassed and slightly ashamed to tell your fears and insecurities to those closest to you. You fear that they may think that your feelings are not valid or worthy of discussion.
15. You’re not able to open up to those you love
You do not wish to share your inner secrets and thoughts with those you love. You keep personal things private in order to protect yourself. Once more you do not wish to ‘burden’ your loved ones with your problems or concerns.
16. You’re not able to have fun when you are by yourself
When you are by yourself all your fears and insecurities surface. You are not at peace with yourself and you seek out distraction.